A Naughty Secret I FINALLY Can Share

The last time I posted I was in the process of becoming a sex coach, sex educator, intimacy coach, etc. Now, I can finally say I’m an Erotic Blueprint™ Coach.

Whoot! Whoot! I’m hype! It took a lot to get here, but I’m excited I accomplished my goal.

As a coach, I envision a world where infidelity is non-existent, and women (especially women of color) are encouraged to advocate for their needs, desires and boundaries to get the love they seek because they deserve to do so.

It may seem impossible or lofty, but it breaks my heart to see married couples cheating on each other, and women struggling with talking about their sexual needs, desires and boundaries with their partners.

So, what’s an Erotic Blueprint Coach? Well, an Erotic Blueprint Coach teaches and educates others about the 5 Erotic Blueprints created by the world-renowned sex educator, Jaiya!

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What are the Erotic Blueprints™? Well, a lot of people compare them to are like the 5 Love Languages b except they’re specifically for understanding how you’re wired for pleasure, how to speak your pleasure and how to feed your pleasure. The blueprints describe your erotic personality and can fluctuate as you go deeper in your erotic journey. The five blueprints are Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky and Shapeshifter.

People who are primarily energetic are pleasured by longing and anticipation.

They’re not big fans of touch. Sometimes if they’re touched too quickly or someone invades their space, it can be a huge turnoff.


People who are primarily sensual blueprints are pleasured by aesthetics. They love pleasure that stimulates all of the five senses.


People who are primarily sexual blueprints LOVE sex.

They view sex as important as food, water and oxygen! Sexuals are pleasured by orgasm (whether from themselves or their partner) and LOVE direct genital touch.

People who are primarily kinky blueprints LOVE taboo.

Taboo can be as extreme as whips and chains (hey Rihanna) or as light as switching positions for the first time. There’s a large kinky spectrum for people to explore. You can be a psychological kinky, which has to do with power dynamics, or you can be a sensational kinky, which means you enjoy the sensations kink provides like spanking, feeling of ropes, floggers, etc.

People who are primarily shapeshifters LOVE it ALL. They are turned on by all the above and then some.


After figuring out my Erotic Blueprint, taking Jaiya’s 8-week course, and attending her annual Path to Passion event last year, I started to feel in alignment with myself and the world around me.

While I’ve spoken to friends (and strangers) about their dating and sex lives, I never thought I could make it a career until I was introduced to this work. I’m happy I’m now able to share this work with others.

Does any of this sound like you? Well, if you want to know for sure, take this quiz to learn more about it.

If you want to go into a deeper exploration of the blueprints, the best thing to do is to schedule a Passionate Possibilities Call with me to see if we’re a good fit for one another. I’m also available to facilitate one- and two-day events.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, please email me directly at chelseaahamlet@gmail.com.

3 thoughts on “A Naughty Secret I FINALLY Can Share

  1. Yes! Congratulations! We need more woman of color in this field.

    1. Thank you my love! I’m excited I found a place here ❤️

  2. Thank you for sharing this here with us. I found it interesting. Nice read.

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