Relationships can be difficult, especially when it comes to intimacy, but that doesn’t mean it has to stay that way.
Whether you’re currently exploring the relationship you have with yourself or with a partner, it can be an uphill battle trying to “fix” what you think is “wrong” or “broken.”
Well, I have news for you: If there is mutual consent from all adults involved, there’s nothing to fix, and no one is wrong or broken.
However, if you want to build a deeper relationship with yourself, spice up a relationship with a partner or change the relationship you have with sex, I have tools that can help.
While I’m sure you’ve tried different techniques and relationship strategies, the tools I’m referring to are called the Erotic Blueprints™.
The Erotic Blueprints are like the 5 Love Languages, except they’re specifically for understanding how you’re wired for pleasure, how to speak your pleasure and how to feed your pleasure. The blueprints describe your erotic personality and can fluctuate as you go deeper in your erotic journey. The five blueprints are Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky and Shapeshifter.
People who are primarily energetic are pleasured by longing and anticipation.
They’re not big fans of touch. Sometimes if they’re touched too quickly or someone invades their space, it can be a huge turnoff.
People who are primarily sensual blueprints are pleasured by aesthetics. They love pleasure that stimulates all of the five senses.
People who are primarily sexual blueprints LOVE sex.
They view sex as important as food, water and oxygen! Sexuals are pleasured by orgasm (whether from themselves or their partner) and LOVE direct genital touch.
People who are primarily kinky blueprints LOVE taboo.
Taboo can be as extreme as whips and chains (hey Rihanna) or as light as switching positions for the first time. There’s a large kinky spectrum for people to explore. You can be a psychological kinky, which has to do with power dynamics, or you can be a sensational kinky, which means you enjoy the sensations kink provides like spanking, feeling of ropes, floggers, etc.
People who are primarily shapeshifters LOVE it ALL. They are turned on by all the above and then some.
Does any of this sound like you? Well, if you want to know for sure, take this quiz to learn more about it.
If you want to go into a deeper exploration of the blueprints, the best thing to do is to schedule a Passionate Possibilities Call with me to see if we’re a good fit for one another. I’m also available to facilitate one- and two-day events.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, please email me directly at firstname.lastname@example.org.